Be like Tom

Everybody just wants to be liked and accepted. Except for Tom. Tom doesn't give a shit.

youtube comments

I was able to post comments yesterday but I just tried to post a few and they are not showing up. Maybe I need to wait 24 hours between posting comments or something?

Adult Baby roleplaying in the larger context of ageplay

In reply to a comment on youtube:

Adult baby roleplaying is just a more specific form of ageplay (or age regression roleplaying). People into ageplay might roleplay as any age they desire. Some people have a specific age in mind when they roleplay, or they might combine aspects of a range of ages. This includes adult babies. In my experience it is a bit rare for someone to do strict roleplaying as an infant. Most adult babies would be better described as adult toddlers. Some adult babies roleplay as 8 or 10 year olds who like to, or are "forced" to wear diapers and/or baby clothes. The roleplaying you do is only limited to your imagination.

Act Your Age

Where does it say we have to "act" our age? As long as it makes me happy and I'm not hurting anyone, I will act whatever age I want to!

Memes: Weird vs Normal

Being called weird is like being called limited edition. Meaning you're something people don't see that often. Remember that.

Someone just called me normal... I have never been so insulted in my life!

Happiness and the Brain (Viewing Adult Baby roleplaying as a positive aspect of my life)

Many people, including adult babies, ponder why it is that we enjoy roleplaying.  In order to understand why adult babies like roleplaying specifically, it is important to understand why people enjoy things in general. Started searching for youtube videos on this a month or so ago and watched a couple videos. I think this is one of the ones I watched.

I want to do more studying about this and would like to learn more than talk shows are going to provide.

An interesting concept that I picked up watching this is that psychology and psychiatry are more concerned with understanding problems than studying things that are positive about our psychology. The general concept of this is that we should be proactive with our mental health, rather than just reactive when we are having problems.

How do I relate this to the issue of adult babies? There is a tendency in psychology and psychiatry to view everything is a problem. A doctor who is unfamiliar with adult babies is asked an opinion about them and they start with the assumption that it is a problem to be overcome. This isn't because they don't like adult babies. This is just the way they view issues in general. What if this is a false assumption? What if being an adult baby is not a problem in and of itself?

I'm not sure if I've written this before but I'm glad I'm an adult baby. I see it as a positive aspect of my life. It is something that I enjoy doing and it is good to have things that you enjoy doing so long as it does not cause any objective harm. I think that it is better to enjoy things in life than to not enjoy them. Roleplaying makes me extremely happy. It is relatively easy to do. It does not harm other people. If I don't spend too much time in a wet diaper there are no physical drawbacks. If I have a well balanced life where I take care of my adult responsibilities and have some more grown up interests that occupy my spare time there are no financial or psychological drawbacks. In general it seems like a win win situation for me.

The most likely negative consequences would come from external sources, not the roleplaying itself. I have not experienced discrimination. I am fairly conservative of whom I share this part of my life with but I think it is appropriate. If you are into spanking I don't think it is appropriate to tell your co-workers, and that is how I feel about ageplay as well. Sometimes things do slip out but my vanilla friends who know about my baby side are actually very supportive. You never can tell how someone is going to react though so that is why I recommend being conservative about who you tell.

I hope to write more about how adult baby roleplaying relates to psychology and neurology in the future, but not sure when that will be.

Over 90000 ageplayers on one single website

I just noticed that there are over 90000 people using the "age play" tag on one of the fetish sites I'm on. No, not over 9000, over 90k. Just let that sink in. I wont explicitly name the website but I'm guessing a lot of adult babies could guess without even giving the initials FL. This is a general fetish website, it isn't even oriented towards adult babies or ageplayers. I'm not even sure if the adult baby websites give information about the number of members. Also consider that not everyone who uses FL tags their fetishes at all, let alone tags all their fetishes. Also a lot of people are shy to advertise that they are into ageplay even within the fetish community because of the taboo.

There is no way to know for sure how many adult babies are out there, but it wouldn't surprise me if there were over a million just within the United States. Just consider this when you think that you are the only one out there. You are not. This is not to say I think you should go out and tell everyone you are an adult baby. I'm pretty conservative about who I tell and I recommend other people to also be conservative. I don't even tell all my friends in the kink community, at least not until they have seen me at a party and the cat is out of the bag. But the internet has changed everything. It used to be that adult babies would be lucky if they got to meet anyone else with shared interests. Now it seems like anywhere you go in the USA there will be an adult baby community within driving distance. We are also gaining acceptance in the BDSM community and they really are everywhere.

I just wanted to share some positive thinking.