Over 90000 ageplayers on one single website

I just noticed that there are over 90000 people using the "age play" tag on one of the fetish sites I'm on. No, not over 9000, over 90k. Just let that sink in. I wont explicitly name the website but I'm guessing a lot of adult babies could guess without even giving the initials FL. This is a general fetish website, it isn't even oriented towards adult babies or ageplayers. I'm not even sure if the adult baby websites give information about the number of members. Also consider that not everyone who uses FL tags their fetishes at all, let alone tags all their fetishes. Also a lot of people are shy to advertise that they are into ageplay even within the fetish community because of the taboo.

There is no way to know for sure how many adult babies are out there, but it wouldn't surprise me if there were over a million just within the United States. Just consider this when you think that you are the only one out there. You are not. This is not to say I think you should go out and tell everyone you are an adult baby. I'm pretty conservative about who I tell and I recommend other people to also be conservative. I don't even tell all my friends in the kink community, at least not until they have seen me at a party and the cat is out of the bag. But the internet has changed everything. It used to be that adult babies would be lucky if they got to meet anyone else with shared interests. Now it seems like anywhere you go in the USA there will be an adult baby community within driving distance. We are also gaining acceptance in the BDSM community and they really are everywhere.

I just wanted to share some positive thinking.

The new youtube comment system sucks

Since the new system was implemented I've noticed a number of my comments are not visible when I am not logged in or on another account. Sometimes it will help if you select the Newest First option but not always. I think it is more likely that a comment will be visible if it gets thumbs up. I also think the number of replies increases the probability that a comment will be visible. Keep this in mind when you are considering replying to haters, especially if their comment is not visible when in Top Comments mode and the first comment in the thread is from a hater. I'm not saying you should never reply to haters, but you should be conservative about it. I am reluctant to suggest that you reply to comments you agree with because I do not want to encourage spamming. However if you have something more interesting to say than "I agree" then go ahead. Things you might say in a reply could include clarification, or expanding on what they have written.

Just keep in mind that the new system is going to take some getting used to and it does kind of change the rules. Try to pay attention to what results in better visibility for your comments. I am not sure but I suspect that an increased frequency in comments will result in a decrease in visibility. Sometimes it doesn't make much sense at all. Sometimes I will reply to a couple comments and then start a new thread and the replies I posted are hidden but the new thread I started is OK.